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What's Your Type? Understanding The Nine Personality Types

July 23, 2018

Understanding the Personality Types

 

 

“Why can’t I stop doing what I know I shouldn’t and why can’t I consistently do what I know I should?”

 

“I don’t know why I just said that.”

 

“Please forgive what I did; that wasn’t me.”

 

Have you ever said or thought any of these things? ME TOO. I have great news for you. There is a tool that helps us understand who we are, why we do what we do, and see the light of positive change at the end of our tunnel of learned, habitual behavior.

 

We are all so different, yet we are connected by a shared human experience. The Enneagram is a sacred map that traces nine paths of human nature; nine ways that we cope with the incorrect beliefs that we learned from trauma, and nine ways that we yearn to reconnect to who we truly are.

 

We all rest somewhere in near one of these types, borrowing from those to the left and the right on our quest to avoid pain and seek love. Each type has specific needs, fears and concerns. Within each type are even more unique priorities and interests, called sub-types. Add to that geography, culture, and DNA and you get a true vision o of the vast, beautiful and colorful world that we live in!

 

The journey to transformation, to reconnecting with the very specific good that we are to contribute to the world, begins with self-observation. Self-observation then grows to become self-awareness, and then we move into the contemplative adventure of transformation!

 

I teach the Enneagram as a tool in a larger program I've developed to help professional artists, entrepreneurs and industry leaders go from confusion to clarity and leverage their true selves for their success. 

 

Here is a brief snapshot of each personality type:

 

Ones show us how to live with goodness and with an upright moral code. Imperfection and wrong is a source of frustration for them. They are action-oriented, sensible, discerning and pragmatic. Their obsession with perfection creates an unattainable standard, and they judge themselves and others harshly and fear external criticism.

 

Twos demonstrate empathy and love in the world. They teach us to be giving of ourselves, kind, and meet the needs of others unconditionally. They experience a deep shame when it comes to their own needs and puts others first. They eventually experience hostility when others don’t meet their needs as they meet others’.

 

Threes model truth and honesty in the world. Quietly competitive, their high achieving is an example of possibility and hope. They can become over-identified with what they do and confused their value with the rate of success of their work.

 

Fours can speak to the beauty and significance of everyone and everything in the world. They are self-aware, creative and intuitive. They can experience a deep sense of longing and envy that causes them to withdraw, experience dark moods and assume that no one understands them.

 

Fives provide wisdom and understanding to the rest of us. They have a deep curiosity about why things are the way they are. They consistently delve deeply into things and often test the truth of most assumptions for themselves. Their attentive focus to detail can be a source of self-defeating problems that distract them from their real-life challenges.

 

Sixes can maintain relationships, are loyal and work in community. They are strong and resilient and play a supportive role, and when they do work against leadership, it is often to bring in better-equipped leadership. They experience fear in the form of anxiety and be trapped in their own self-doubting and lack of self-reliance.

 

Sevens are upbeat, energetic and spontaneous. They can be charismatic and engaging and pursue pleasure with a cheerful persistence. Sevens are afraid to be trapped in their pain and constantly brush off the past to focus on what’s next and can become overindulgent and harmed by the consequences of their overdoing it.

 

Eights are the protectors and the champions of the underdog. They are substantial and full of life, and can be powerful advocates. They can also become unnecessary adversaries, using conflict to understand intentions and build intimacy.

 

Nines have a gift for being reassuring, calming and non-judgmental. Their adaptability can become self-forgetting passivity, and they may become angry at their needs taking a backseat to everyone else's. 

 

Did you see yourself and someone you love clearly in the above descriptions?

 

If you want to work together to learn more about your type and how you can go from seeing glimpses of who you are at your core to living from your core, click here. 

 

 

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